Day1Knowing your self worth as a lady

“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.” 

― Shannon L. Alder

self confidence is simply believing in ones ability .

i was once a victim of lack of self confidence ,  i was shy,  was timid, i had low self esteem, i hardly made friends, my high school life was all by myself, i  always withdraw from the crowd, even when i feel the need to speak up, do you ever feel that way ? you just feel like the whole world should come crashing down on your shoulders !!!!  hey yes you reading this its time to step up your game, the world need you

“As long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval, you are setting yourself up for disaster. You have to be whole and complete in yourself. No one can give you that. You have to know who you are - what others say is irrelevant.” 
― Nic Sheff

For the next 6 days i would be dealing with 6 different topics stating from Monday the first of October 2018

1... knowing your self worth as a lady
2.... knowing and understanding your ability
3.... working on your interior self
4.... performing activities to boost your self confidence
5....dealing with set backs and unforeseen circumstances
6..... gaining back your self confidence after falling


you really don't want to miss this. stay tuned

knowing your self worth...

“You can be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you, but if you yourself don't know it, all of that doesn't even matter. Every second that you spend on doubting your worth, every moment that you use to criticize yourself; is a second of your life wasted, is a moment of your life thrown away. It's not like you have forever, so don't waste any of your seconds, don't throw even one of your moments away.” 

― C. JoyBell C.

it simply means how you feel about yourself, knowing your net value. how you see your self as an individual. some one once said if i don't feel my self, if i don't hype myself better than anyone one else who will???? its important we know how important we are as a person and not just as individuals living in a world, where you can be oppressed, timid laughed at, and then all you do is curl up back into your shells, feeling a like nobody likes you, and all of that. we ladies we value most of our material things even more than we value our selves. the next question is how do i know my self worth

1. LOVE AND VALUE YOURSELF: standing in front of a mirror i had spoken to my self, about how beautiful, courageous i am, how easy going, all am trying to say is if you don't know your own value, if you don't love your self the way you are, no one would. " we cannot think of being acceptable to others until we have first proven acceptable ton ourselves MAC COLMX"

2. identify your abilities; what are you good in whats that talents in you, know your abilities, know your FEAR, you knowing your fear as a person helps you want to work on it, helps you want to tackle it. you want to tackle such situations when next you find yourself in a tight corner, it makes you realize who you are.

3.learn from your mistakes: the greatest mistakes we can ever make is not the mistakes we committed in the first place but the mistake of us not getting back up on our feet.

4. Don't live to impress others: most times we ladies are guilty of this,  even on our relationship, we try our best to impress others even if it means reducing our values as an individual. If pleasing someone else reduces you to nothing, let them go!

5. Give some time to yourself : spend time learning new things, give yourself some time, set realistic goals,  be industrious, always find a way to improve your self value.

How much do you worth??🤔🤔