Hello ladies..... It's been a while, but am back!  So I got this inspiration to write about addictions, what we ladies are addicted to, but I was like ' do I really know what we ladies are addicted to?' So I decided to ask the gentle guys or rather gentlemen and guess what their response was?  Paul said ladies are addicted to accessories. Soji said ladies are addicted to phones, sex mostly when they loose their virginity at a wrong time and he also said Guy's specifically the handsome ones, without knowing their character. Ebube said ladies are addicted to money Genesis said ladies are addicted to makeup, fashion. Efe said ladies are addicted to sex! Jimmy said ladies are addicted to flashy things. Hmmmm! Their response surprised me, as I had thought most of them would talk about the common addiction like drug abuse, alcohol and the rest! Then I decided to ask a female friend megan and this was her reply 'Cute guys, romance comedy' ...

         ANOREXIA             I had always wanted to write about this as it a common saying among ladies you often hear them say " oh am watching my weight" sometimes I wonder what weight! They are slowly getting into the state of what doctors call Anorexia I.e the fear of weight gain, sometimes you see some of them so skinny yet claim they are fat! The picture aboves speaks about everything, a Lady who sees herself to be fat but she is slim, can you imagine😖😖😖😖 She has develop eating disorder, so many people suffer from it today.                              So many things leads to Anorexia either because of some silly reasons like         Comments from friends like " o dear! You beginning to add up! sometimes we often want to look exactly like models, so skinny and sexy, but those models eat good foods, they are on ...

             Watching two kids from afar i was         Amaze at what the girl did she was able         to defend herself when the boy tried to          touch her!   Hello dear am not a FEMINIST am just trying to say ladies let learn to have self-defense, then as for the guys please stop domestic violence!

               Every young lady has the tendency to feel insecure,   Feel like she is all alone just because she feels nobody loves her! Ladies the truth is you should learn to love yourself, that way been depressed seems far away!                          " Every lady is beautiful "

                   She so tender hearted yet strong               Easily tossed but firm like a rock               Her thoughts are deep yet hidden               She's lost her own voice!                                                 Depressed!

Just a story of hope Am tired of answering unnecessary questions from people who look at me with disgust in their eyes and a pity face like they really care. I could remember mother telling dad to hold on a little about me entering a boarding school but dad would always insist and stick to his words, I would rather call him a disciplinarian yet a loving and harsh father. 'She is going have made plans for her already and not even you could stop me now' ' haba! take it easy on me now, Abi is she not also my daughter? That was a week before my resumption date when mum pleaded but to no avail. Dad drove me all by himself after mum had showered me with kisses and prayers, I could feel her pains and the tears that was about pouring out of her beautiful eyes, I had told her everything would be alright. The route we took was not bad like the one leading to my hometown that always made our car shake as if it was been tossed by spiritual...